I Messaged 9 Girls on Dating Sites… and Got Zero Replies

Recently, I’ve been trying out Date Me Doc and CompassMeet, but honestly, there aren’t many active users, and the interaction feels quite limited. Interestingly, I joined Compass after Martin, the owner of the site, invited me to register—he got my information from Date Me Doc.
Compass is still in its early growth phase, with over 500 members and around 100 new people joining each month. It might actually be a good time to build a strong profile now and stay visible as the community continues to expand.
On Date Me Doc, I reached out to 7 girls by email, and on Compass, I sent messages to 2 girls—but unfortunately, I didn’t get any replies.
Then I started wondering… is it because the number is 9? 😄 Just joking—but you know how the pronunciation of “9” can sound a bit like “none.” Maybe that’s my luck talking.
Still, since these platforms are free to use, I can’t really complain—haha. It’s all part of the journey, and I’ll just keep going.
— Bob Date
April 7, 2026