If you’re a foreign woman currently living in Beijing or planning to visit soon, this message is for you.
Beijing is exciting, but many expat women find dating here quite challenging. Apps often feel shallow or too casual, and it can be hard to meet a kind, sincere local man who is serious about a long-term relationship.
I’m Bob Date, living in Beijing, born in 1978 and a licensed private tour guide. I’m genuinely looking for a meaningful, long-term partner — someone kind, warm-hearted, and family-oriented.
Instead of dating apps, I believe real connection grows best through real-life experiences. That’s why I offer private, personalized journeys in Beijing, especially open to expat women.
These are relaxed, one-on-one (or with a friend/family for extra comfort) experiences where we can explore the city together at a comfortable pace — walking through the Forbidden City, discovering quiet hutongs, visiting the Great Wall, or creating a custom day based on your interests. It’s a natural way to talk, share stories, and see if there’s genuine chemistry.
I’m an open, flexible, and honest man with no complicated family ties. I value kindness, understanding, and simple living.
If you’re an expat woman who is tired of superficial dating and would like to meet someone genuine while experiencing the real Beijing, feel free to reach out.
How It Works:
Simply message me at BobDate@163.com (mailto:BobDate@163.com) or WeChat (BeOhBe).
You can share a bit about yourself — your background, what brings you to Beijing, your interests, and a few recent photos. I’ll reply honestly.
If we both feel there could be a connection, we can chat via voice or video calls first. Then, if it feels right, we can discuss a private journey together and talk about the practical details (including costs).
Even if romance doesn’t develop, you’re still very welcome to book a regular private tour with me at standard rates — I’ll show you the authentic side of Beijing as your local guide.
Real connection takes real time and real experiences. If this resonates with you, I’d be happy to hear from you.
Looking forward to possibly meeting you,
— Bob Date
Beijing, March 2026
If you’re curious about my journey or feel something resonating here, feel free to reach out.
I don’t share everything publicly, but I’m always open to sharing more when there’s a genuine connection.